1. Appreciate what you own/have: Happiness and satisfaction are just states of mind. You can realize them the moment you want to. And as soon as you realize that this potential vests with you, you will see how things will start coming closer to you. You will then radiate a positive aura. Also, appreciate people for what they teach you, guide you with and give you. Let everyone feel they have a reason to be born as a human, remember that among many things which only humans can show/do > 'respect' & 'gratitude', both top the list.
2. You are the KING!: Everyone has his/her own definition of 'success', mine happens to be 'when I get to do my things - my way; I feel I am a successful soul'. Feel like you own yourself, smell the feeling of independence, the power to spend your day just the way you like. Take the control of your routine and build up a great-empire of 'nice-habits, positive-energy, happiness & contentment' around it. Live-like-a-King!
> Ladies may consider living like a Queen or Princesses. :P
3. Take care of your health: Not that you are all alone so should you be more particular about not falling ill. But taking care of your health will teach you a lot of things about yourself. Exercise is a part of this and it's one of the best ways to kill/pass/invest time. A sport which you always wanted to play but couldn't afford money-wise/time-wise, now is the time. Keep your place clean, decorate your room, let a positive energy flow through, let yourself feel energized.
4. Relax and Celebrate: Oh yeah! celebrate your moments - avoid self talking and rather indulge into an activity. Buy yourself nice stuff, read a book, go out on a walk, swim or cycle, catch a new movie, hit a coffee shop, go fishing, a ride into the hills or go-out on a date. Well, I like to treat myself with a Chocolate-Ice-Cream with extra Hot-Chocolate-Fudge & Brownie! :D
5. Do what you always wanted to do: 're-discover your potential', we all have hidden talents. Now is time to figure it out, experiment with different things - be it colours, solder-iron, clay, waste stuff like cans & bottles, ropes, wood, sand, vegetables, fruits, design a car or phone or watches. Do what you always wished to, this is the time to switch your career path, listen to yourself - talk to yourself - and understand what can keep you 100% involved at your work-bench till the end of time. Expand your networking, work on killing your stage fear or shyness, make presentations or write a blog.
6. Participate in charity, marathons, walk-a-thons, protests, volunteer: Its the best time to give back to the society. Get out of home, meet new people, make them realize the worth of time and health we possess. Charity is good, be humble and donate, donate what ever you can - blood, clothes, money, devices and time.
7. Draw out time for your family, friends & hobbies: Doing what you always wanted to do is not same as what hobbies you pursue. Friends, Family and Hobbies need time out of the same 24Hrs in which you have to do all the other things in the World. Plan your weekends and holidays. Give time to your family & friends, sit & talk to them, plan events and assist them with something you are through with, or take their help & suggestions they are well versed at.
> Collaborate, Co-operate and Celebrate!
8. Focus on yourself → Mediate → Pray.
9. Don't wait for the right moment, just do the right thing & strive if you have to: Walk out of your comfort-zone if you have to. Plan your → weeks, milestones, habits you want to inculcate & places you want to goto. You don't have to wait for Mr./Mrs. Right or the Right time, it not necessarily be for a romantic objective, but for whatever you wish to put your hand in.
I hope you'll have a great time experiencing single-hood, like I do! (:
I know you have it in You! It's ALL in THERE in YOU!
